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"What does he or she really feel when they see me?" is a precise and powerful variation on the question of feelings. It targets a specific moment: the physical encounter, the shared gaze, the face-to-face. What happens inside the other person at that instant? The tarot does not literally pick up a lived emotion, but it observes the present resonance of the bond when you are together. This page explains how this question is handled and which arcana shed light on the moment of meeting.
This question is valuable because it isolates a concrete moment instead of asking about feelings in general. When you see someone again, whether an old love or a recent attraction, the face of the moment betrays or hides. The tarot can reveal what plays out inwardly for the other person at that moment: emotion, joy, discomfort, indifference, attraction. The 78 cards translate that stirring that does not always appear in words. These felt states are not decisions. Someone can be moved seeing you without wanting to resume the relationship. The tarot reads the instant, not what follows.
Three cards illuminate the moment well: conscious emotion, deeper emotion, inner consequence. Several arcana speak of stirring at the sight of someone. The Moon evokes confused emotion, sometimes nostalgic. The Page of Cups reflects a vivid, fresh emotion. The Six of Cups recalls the past rising up. The Star indicates softness, peaceful affection. On the other hand, the Four of Cups evokes inner absence, and the Five of Swords reflects unresolved tension. Justice will come up if the other person looks at you with lucidity and acknowledgment.
This question is best asked after a real encounter rather than from imagination. If you draw before seeing the person again, you project your hopes onto the reading. Draw rather that same evening, or the following days, to understand what happened inside them during the meeting. Do not draw after every mundane crossing: save this question for significant moments. And accept that what happened in the other person's head belongs to them: the tarot offers you a reading, never an exhaustive certainty.
"What does he feel for me" asks about an overall, lasting feeling. "What does he feel when he sees me" targets a precise moment: the meeting. A person can hold deep feelings that do not show at the face-to-face, or conversely live an intense one-off stirring with no lasting commitment behind it.
Yes, in broad tones. Solar arcana, Sun, Star, Page of Cups, evoke a pleasant stirring. More tense arcana, Five of Swords, Four of Cups, Tower, evoke discomfort, withdrawal, an emotion not mastered. The precise nuance requires a combined reading.
The tarot works best on a recent or anticipated encounter. For someone you no longer see, reframe as: "When she thinks of me, what does she feel?". The answer will be better aligned with the actual time distance.
That is a common situation. Feeling and acting are two different things. Fear, life context, another commitment can block a real inner movement. The tarot gives you a reading of the feeling; action depends on so many factors that translation is never automatic.